Most of my family, and many of my friends, are religious. I assume most of them know that I am not. I think those that know me think of me as a good person, or at least a well-meaning, loving person, but I also know that they have concerns about me because of my lack of faith. A big topic is, "Without religion, where do your morals come from?" This (relatively brief) article is a nice discussion of the topic. The short answer: The Golden Rule.
How secular family values stand up